Tuesday, May 14, 2019

Escape Rooms, Sleepovers, Hanging Out, Movies, Birthdays, Bridesmaids Dress Shopping, Confrontations, & Stolen Phones

March was pretty busy! So was April, so I'm finally getting around to catching up with all of my posts lol. My weekends were packed!

Well, okay, the first weekend was pretty chill. Michelle surprised Kyle by booking an escape room, and we ended up going with Sam, Lance, Dom, Archana, and Sonali. It was just the right amount of people to have the whole escape room to ourselves lol. We made plans to get dinner around 6, so Dom, Archana, Michelle, and I hungout in one of the huddle rooms in our office until then. Archana really wanted to learn how to knit, so Michelle brought some knitting stuff, and even Dom learned how to do it by the time we left.

Then we went to Cinco's for dinner. Sonali was supposed to meet up with us there, but she was super late. She came after we got our food. Then she was late to the escape room (she arrived on time but left to take a call so she missed out on all of the rules and stuff), so we lost a couple of minutes in the beginning. Then she made us lose some more minutes because she somehow missed all of the DO NOT TOUCH stickers on all of the pictures on the wall and picked up one of the giant picture frames, so we got in trouble for that.

Ugh, she was annoying the whole night. I'm pretty sure she made no contribution to finding any of the clues other than helping look through a book to get the right words since there were four books to go through. All she did was hover unnecessarily close to everyone and touch us to feel included. All in all, our score could have been higher.


However, during the dinner that night, Michelle invited Archana over the next weekend to hangout, so she did. Dom couldn't make it since she already had plans lol. Archana brought some mix over to make this fried doughy treat to eat with tea, so that was fun to do. She also spent a lot of time learning about stuff from Michelle. I was just goofing around and doing push ups since I already heard all of her stories lol.

The next Friday, I took the day off since I had a dentist and doctor's appointment. Then I drove down to Warner Robins and hungout with Mikey since I hadn't seen him in a while. We watched the new My Hero Academia movie! It was good lol.

Mikey, Alec, and I went to Thai Pepper the next night to bother David at work. It was fun, especially since David would keep on stopping by whenever there was a lull with work. We stayed until closing, and I went home with him.

The next morning, David and I got brunch at IHOP before meeting Alec and Mikey at the movies to go watch Captain Marvel. The movie was so good!


That past Friday and Sunday were Jack and Ebony's birthday, so we went out after work on Wednesday to celebrate. We went to Punch Bowl Social at the Battery for food and drinks, and Julie, Jack's twin sister, came out to celebrate. Unfortunately, Anita couldn't come, so Julie couldn't meet her, which was who she was most excited to meet lol.

That Saturday, we met up to go bridesmaids dress shopping for Emily's wedding. It was the first time most of us have seen each other since Emily's wedding dress shopping a couple of months ago, so it was really nice to catch up in between trying on lots of dresses lol. Afterwards, most of us went to get lunch at Jinya Ramen bar and hangout at my place since we had to drop Meethu at the train station.

We were supposed to have a sleepover with all five of us that next weekend since we haven't had a proper get together in a long time, but things didn't pan out, so that was postponed for Meethu's bachelorette party lol.

Instead, a series of passive aggressive emails led me to chewing Brian out at work that Friday. It's kind of complicated, but basically, he's in charge of these videos, which I needed the link to them for another big project. However, because he didn't change the names to make them consistent with what we have on our LMS, I needed his help to find all of the links. He briefly mentioned that I would be able to find the links on this one Trello board that he uses with all of the other video contributors one time before the end of his day, but I forgot about it because I was looking for lots of other links as well, so I sent him an email asking for links to five different videos.

The next morning, I get a passive aggressive email from him saying that if I had listened to him, I would have found the links on the Trello board and told me where to find it instead of just giving me the damn links. I got so pissed, especially after I found out from Anita that Irene, our manager, has asked him to rename the videos for consistency multiple times before. What has he done? NOT THAT.

It just made me even more mad that I had to do all of this in the first place because technically, Brian should be doing this since these videos are his responsibilities, but since Excel sheets freak him out and we knew he wouldn't finish it in time, I was assigned the task. And I was wasting hours of my time trying to track down all of these videos when he should have been doing it instead.


So I responded to his email at the end of the day as politely (as polite as an asshole can be lol) as possible, emphasizing that we having naming conventions and rename things for organizational consistency multiple times. I then pointed out that instead of telling me where everything was, he could have just given me the links in the first place so it would save time for everyone involved.

Then he had the audacity to message me the next morning assuming that I read his email and asking if he made me upset. It just pissed me off even more because 1) Don't assume that you're important enough for me to read your email first thing; I've got other things to do and 2) I don't know how he inferred that I was upset when my answering email was anything but politely pissed. I told him that I hadn't read it yet since I was working on a video, and then he tells me that he wouldn't be able to help me find the links if I couldn't find them because they should be on Trello.

Ohhhh I got so pissed when I read that. Then I noticed that his status didn't say that he was working from home that day, so I got even more mad because I couldn't believe that he wouldn't even come over to talk to me and was just messaging me over Skype even though our cubes are only a couple of feet away from each other.

So I marched over to his cube to make sure he was here and confronted him. All he did was stutter and apologize and said that he wasn't efficient like Anita and me (like it's our fault that we're good at our jobs???), so he's never had to bother with naming consistencies before. He promised to be more cognizant about maintaining consistency, especially when starting new projects and promised to fix all of the names for the videos, and I went back to my desk still high on adrenaline.

Since it was Friday, a lot of people were working from home, so the office was really quiet. So pretty much everyone heard our confrontation... Jack stopped in my cube after I sat back down and was making that "Whew!" gesture for how intense the conversation was that he overheard lol. He asked me if I needed a cool down lap, so we walked over to Dom and Archana's desk and told them what happened. Lol he told me how as soon as he heard me walk past his cube and said, "Oh, you're here" to Brian, he immediately took off his headphones and messaged Ebony to do the same to eavesdrop! XD

That night, I went out to eat Korean BBQ at Iron Age with Michelle, Kyle, and Kyle's cousin and his wife. It was an eventful day lol.

Since my plans that weekend got cancelled, I went home to visit the parents with Michelle and Kyle that weekend. My friends had planned on going to the Cherry Blossom festival on Sunday, so I was planning on going for a bit before heading home.


It didn't happen because my dad lost his phone the night before, and we only found out about it the next day. Then one of his workers called my mom and asked if my dad found his phone since he got a call from his phone, but the person who called him immediately hung up after he said hello. That's when we realized that someone took his phone, so we used the Find My Phone feature on iPhones and found its location, but even after driving around and looking around, we couldn't find it.

Eventually, dad called it a loss and said that he'd just cancel that phone and get a new one. It was fine since he due for an upgrade a year or two ago lol. He had an iPhone 5, so clearly, it wasn't a huge loss for him. We spent the next couple of hours buying him and mom a new phone since her phone was having dialing issues anyway and transferring all of their content.

By the time we were done with everything, the Cherry Blossom Festival was already over. :(

So yeah, it was an eventful month full of ups and downs.

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